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Christelle,
You’re courageous. You’re confident. You know how to [do something]…
I quite often hear these statements when I say that I left France for the UK at 20 (while not really speaking English), I moved to another continent, I decided to set-up my own practice in a very different field than the one I worked in for 25 years…
But that’s not how I see it…
I see what I really, really, really want to achieve / get to… and I check with myself what I’m prepared to do (which generally means getting out of my comfort zone) to reach that objective…
Sometimes, I’m prepared to do a lot of “new” things, to get way outside my comfort zone (is that "courage"?)… but sometimes I conclude that it’s not “worth” the discomfort…
You can choose courage or you can choose comfort. You cannot have both - Brene Brown
How about you?
- What it is you really, really, really want?
- Do you want it enough to get way outside of your comfort zone? – choosing “courage”
- Or is your comfort more important than that “want"? – choosing “comfort”
Note: There isn’t a right and a wrong answer!!! But you have to decide, at least for now… And remember that, very often, you can get back to it in the future…
I wrote about this topic in some of my articles:
>>> Exasperated by your Brain’s Protective Mechanism? Have a “Conversation” with It… and Here Is How!
>>> No Role Models? And So What! Here Are 8 Steps To Empower Yourself Anyway!
>>> 5 Steps I’m Glad I Took to Empower Myself as a Young Professional
Empower yourself - starting with holding yourself accountable…
About last week:
- Did you take the step you had decided to take last week?
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What else could you have done to make this action even better?
About this week:
- What’s one other step you can take this week?
- Are you clear on what’s important (to you) about taking this step?
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To Your Success!
Christelle
Self-leadership Awakener – Coach, Facilitator
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