Hello Christelle!

Still wondering what’s really stopping you from moving forward on that goal of yours?

This week, let’s dig a little deeper - one layer at a time!

A Coaching-Infused Reflection

You’ve probably heard the expression “peeling the onion”: the idea of getting beneath the surface, layer by layer, to uncover what’s really going on. Well, that’s exactly what we’re doing today with your goal.

Think of a goal you really want to achieve, but, for some reason, you’re not doing much about it.

Now imagine you’ve achieved it. It feels amazing, right?

But it wasn’t easy! You had to overcome doubts, obstacles, and fears. Getting started was the hardest part. But you did it. And it was worth it!

So… what’s standing in your way right now?

Let’s peel that onion - starting with the outer skin:

What are the first 2-3 obstacles that come to mind?: these are often things outside your control, like the economy, job market, or cost of training…

Peel them off and toss them aside: they’re real, but they’re just the skin.

Next layer:

What obstacles feel tied to others (as in, other people around you)?: maybe your manager doesn’t see your potential, or you’re not in the “right” network…

Throw those in the pan: they’re important, but they’re not the full story either.

Now you’re getting closer to the core:

What’s stopping you from making a move?: like asking for a raise, applying for that opportunity, or finally sharing your idea…

Time to chop that onion down to smaller pieces!

Pick one of those internal obstacles. Get curious: what’s ONE small piece of that challenge you could take action on?

Now, what’s ONE action you WILL take after this reflection? (Yes, right now!)

What’s the smallest piece of the obstacle you can act on?

• Can you send that email?
• Book that info session?
• Ask one person for advice?

Start with that. Just that.

Then take the next step.

Keep chopping. Keep going. You’ve got this!

Let’s Keep the Momentum Going!

Already know you’ll need a hand peeling back the layers?

That’s what I’m here for!

Schedule a call with me here!

Upcoming Events & Latest News

• April 24, 2025 (LinkedIn Live) - What’s Really Stopping You? A Guided Reflection
• May 2, 2025 (a Sample conversation) - What’s really stopping you? (Is it YOU holding yourself back?)
• May 8, 2025 (Ellevate Network, Northern New Jersey chapter) - How to be the CEO of Your Life?--Choosing Your Personal Board of Directors

Check out the Events page for details and registrations!

To your progress - one small slice at a time!

Christelle (Self-Leadership Awakener – Coach, Facilitator)