Hello Christelle!

Have you ever pictured the version of yourself that you dream of becoming?

Maybe it’s the version of you who speaks up more at work, takes on bigger projects, or shows up authentically - no longer hiding behind expectations.

But then, do you quickly dismiss that dream, wondering:

“But who else has done this? Can I really pull it off if no one like me has ever done it before?”

We’ve all been there. I’ve felt the weight of wanting more, while not seeing anyone like me doing it - especially as I transitioned from the construction industry to the world of “empowerment”.

But what if the shift we need isn’t to wait for someone else to show us the way, but instead to imagine “what could be”?

What if we could become the role models we’re searching for?

Coaching-Infused Reflection

What would your future self say to you now?

Imagine a version of yourself who has already done the thing you’re hesitant to do, the thing you’re holding back from because you don’t see anyone like you doing it.

Picture that person:

• What do they look like?
• What do they feel about the decisions you’re facing right now?
• And how do they feel about the choice to step up, even without a clear role model?
• What are they proud of, and how do they see you showing up?

This question recently came up for Carla, a visual communication director, when she realized she was holding back in a metric-driven environment. She found herself wondering:

“When I meet my final self, is she going to be proud of me? Or is she going to be like, ‘You didn’t really show up for this life. I love you anyway, but you didn’t’?”

That moment sparked a shift in her, and she recognized that her authentic self was the role model she needed to be!

Then there’s my own journey - dreaming of becoming a thought leader who empowers mid-level professionals to carve their own path. But I couldn’t find anyone “like me” among the well-known thought leaders in this space. It made me realize that if I didn’t see myself represented, others likely didn’t either. That’s when it clicked:

“Why not step up and become the thought leader who could inspire them, just as I needed someone to inspire me?”

Now, what’s ONE action you WILL take after this reflection?

Can you start imagining your own version of success, one that doesn’t need to be dictated by someone else’s path?

It could be a small but powerful shift, something as simple as taking a step toward showing up authentically in a meeting or exploring new possibilities in your work.

Let’s Keep the Momentum Going!

Curious about how this could play out in your life?

If you’re ready to explore how I can help you get there,

Then just schedule a call with me here!

Upcoming Events & Latest News

• Aug. 7, 2025 - No Role Models? No Problem. Create Your Own Path! (a Coaching-Infused Conversation LinkedIn Live - Get sparks of new awareness and reflection!)
• Aug.  22, 2025 - No Role Models? No Problem... because You’re the One You’ve Been Waiting for! (a Coaching-Infused Conversation Sample – A live, small-group conversation to experience personal insight and gentle action!)

Check out the Events page for details and registrations!

Enjoy dreaming Future You!

Christelle (Self-Leadership Awakener – Coach, Facilitator)